Heterodoxy or Life as a Stranger

Thinking about Alberto Salazar

I just now read a Kenny Moore story on Alberto first published in SI in March 1982. Probably the best piece written to unwrap who the young man was age 23 at the time.

I was aware of Alberto at least from the time I joined the Greater Boston Track Club in 1974/75 the “rookie” a high schooler, had been taken under the wing of our Coach Bill Squires.

I did not know Alberto well, on the one hand but on the other hand, I knew him all too well.

This is a bit of something I wrote a while back and I know I was thinking about Alberto and others of his ilk at the time he personified it all of course, like everything I write this pertains to me though we’re all brothers:

Heterodoxy or Life as a Stranger

“The two most important days in your life are the day you were born and the day you find out why.” Mark Twain

I understood at some moment in my life perhaps around age 13 that I had a tendency to stand alone feel apart somehow if in a large crowd of people I would feel claustrophobic and want out hopefully to a quiet place a forest.

Also in my thoughts I in some way went against the grain and I even remember having my first sort of philosophical debate with someone at a house party age 16 or 17 regarding the relative worth of say a MD versus a Garbage Man of course I regarded the Garbage Man as highly as a physician crazy huh?

I was feeling the pull of some invisible force within me my head and my heart were telling me be calm life has its tragedies and my family had suffered a few and I wondered how long would my life go on and where others despaired or determined to be a success in some career and put the past behind them I determined to run myself into the ground because that feeling the out of body like experience was all that lasted.

It is a thrill to see how far you can push your mind and body and not always healthy but when I raced and I began to know my competitors I recognized others of my persuasion when my teammates would refer to them as “sick” and “not right” they were going to be the best runners no doubt. If someone referred to me that way I considered it a compliment.

In my teens I felt ungainly in my body certainly not an athletic physique just a scrawny kid but when I ran in my mind I was powerful and I proved it to myself by running away from my competitors or most of them.

As I became more immersed in athletics and read the great athletic biographies and strongly identified with the athletes I read about I realized many of them were just like me when they were my age and that I might become transcendent.

Though I was calm on the outside a petard grew on the inside where I raged and it went off when I raced. Otherwise I was very quiet in a group shy even but immediately after a race on the ride home you could not shut me up I was momentarily a different animal still wired from the experience adrenaline staggering and swaggering punch drunk.

And yet I could be morose. One time a friend’s dad asked me “does your father beat you?” Everyone laughed. I gave him the finger.

.As I moved through my teen years and through high school I knew that I could not conform it was only later that I turned this on myself and decided that for me the way I was built conforming would be a form of non-conformity.

Mind games tricks that we play on ourselves at eighteen I thought I knew it all the ways of the world and I did too but then later I met someone…..

VAN MORRISON Bright Side of the Road – YouTube

Lyrics

From the dark end of the street

To the bright side of the road

We’ll be lovers once again

On the bright side of the road

Little darlin’, come with me

Won’t you help me share my load

From the dark end of the street

To the bright side of the road

Into this life we’re born

Baby sometimes, sometimes we don’t know why

And time seems to go by so fast

In the twinkling of an eye

Let’s enjoy it while we can (let’s enjoy it while we can)

Won’t you help me share my load (help me share my load)

From the dark end of the street

To the bright side of the road

Into this life we’re born

Baby sometimes, sometimes we don’t know why

And time seems to go by so fast

In the twinkling of an eye

Let’s enjoy it while we can (let’s enjoy it while we can)

Help me sing my song (help me sing my song)

Little darling come alone

To the bright side of the road

On the dark end of the street (on the dark end of the street)

To the bright side of the road (to the bright side of the road)

Little darling come alone

On the bright side of the road

On the dark end of the street (on the dark end of the street)

To the bright side of the road (to the bright sight of the road)

We’ll be lovers once again

On the bright side of the road

Yeah, we’ll be, we’ll be lovers once again

On the bright side of the road